It is sometimes said that borrowing money from a friend can harm or damage the friendship. Do you agree or disagree? |
It is debatable whether money can be the factor for breaking friendship. Some people say that if you are a real friend, you should the friend who cannot return your money so this cannot harm or damage the relationship with the friend. However I think differently. I support the idea that the money can damage the friendship because money is hard to get so anyone who lend the money to friends wants to get back their money and if a the person who lend the money is a real friend, that person should teach his or her friend how borrowing and lending money is important. First of all, There is no person who lose his or her money. Money is hard to get because we should work hard if we want to earn the money. People does not want their money with no reason. Of course, people expects to get back their money which the person lend to the friend. But if the friend cannot return the money properly or forget that, he or she will very disappointed about the friend. And this will impact the reliability. This relationship cannot last longer. That person will not believe the friend any more and will not want to give a hand. So the more nearer relationship, the more politeness is needed. In my case, I had lent my money to friend. However the friend had not got my money back so I did not give a hand to that friend. Furthermore, If the person is a real friend, he or she should teach the friend how money is important. If the person is the best friend, that person can understand more the friend. However, when the friend will borrow the money from others later, if the friend get back the money at proper times, the friend would lose credit. So the person should let his or her person know how important the money. Relationship between the friends can break during this process. The friend misunderstand that he or she ignores the friend. In conclusion, the money can affect the friendship badly because the friend does not treat his or her friend with politeness or the friend misunderstand. The most important thing between friends is the reliability. |