humor is better than knowlege. |
Those who value much knowlege the only key to success might say that we should get along with intelligent friends. However, I think that to have a bright future making friends who have a good humor is better than those who are knowlegable. There are two major reasons: stress and a sense of inferiority. To begin with, as far as stress is concernd, it is benefical for us to make humerous friends. In the past, we tried to get good knowlege to have our bight future. However, we are now paying attention to not acquiring the specific knowlege from intelligent firends ,but playing with humerous firends to reduce our stress from studying hard. For instance, you are struggling with problems in the workplace, and you go to smart friends for advice. you perhaps wants somebody who listen to you, but they often become rational and keep blaming of you. On the other hand, you go to humerous firends and they could chang the subject of the conversation and help you relieve your stress. For this reason, when it comes to getting rid of stress, There is nothing better than houmerous friends. Moreover, intelligent friends are likely to feel superior over you. Although someone might say that by being with smart friends , you can also become intelligent person, you may not deny that we can feel inferior when getting along with knowlegable friends because of the fact that we don't have more knowlege than them . Here is what I have experienced myself. Back in the first year of college, my friends and I had a great time talking about all the trivial everyday life. Then we finally came up with our part time job issuses. Some of them had the low-paying jobs while some even could not find any jobs. At that moment, we asked one friend who sat in silence about her job. She said that she have an intership in a promising company. She was a freshman ,but she was employed due to her outstanding academic records. We knew that she did not want to put on airs. However, we felt small at the moment and we immediately changed the subject of converstion. Consequently, we can have a sense of inferiority by talking with knowlegable friends. In summary, I disagree with the statemant that having intelligent friends is more benenfical to us than those who are humorous. From reliving stress to not having a sense of inferiority, there is nothing better than having a humerous friends |