It is better to spend time with one or two close friends than with a large number of friends. |
It is generally said that it is beneficial to spend time with one or two close friends than with a large number of friends. Some people might disagree with this statement because of a possibility of a narrow friend's relation and so on. However, in my opinion, I agree that spending time with one or two close friends is more advantageous than with a large number of friends because you can tell serious problems related you. Furthermore, we can build even stronger friendships. First of all, spending time with one or two close friends makes us confess our concerns. This is mainly because we feel more comfortable when we are with close friends. To put it again, if we spend time with a great amount of friends, we may converse very superficially. Even though some people might say that it is not necessarily true, I have the following example that can support my opinion. To illustrate my sister's experience, my sister was worried about her career of future: entering a university or getting a job. At that time, she was so confused that she met six friends. After meeting her friends, she told me that she became more puzzled because she heard too much advice. If she had spent time with a close friend, she could have solute her problems easily. This is one of the reasons that I support it is better to spend time with a close friend.
In addition, spending time with a close friend allows us to make far deeper relation between friends. This is because, as I mentioned above, the more talking about personal concerns, the deeper friendship is. In other words, if we spend time with a number of friends, we just make shallow relationship even though it may wider. Of course, it would be good to meet many friends. However, in my regard, it is not necessarily true to me. From my personal experience, I was a leader of a class when I was 16. So I had to meet a variety of friends and chances to spend time with a number of classmates was given frequently. After graduating middle school, I felt that I didn't make a real friend during middle school students and so lonely for a while. If I had spent more time with a small number of close friends, I would have made a permanent friend.
To summarize what I've said until now, I strongly believe that it is desirable to spend time one or two close friends than with a great deal of friends. The reasons behind this are that we can make not only deep-conversation but also deep friendship. All things considered, there is no doubt in my mind that no one can deny these benefits mentioned above by spending a few friends. |
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