First impressions tell a lot about people. Do you agree or disagree?
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Nowadays, a lot of women have plastic surgery to make them more beautiful even males do that. Considering this trend, it may reflect that first impressions are important factor when we meet someone for the first time. In other words, if we meet one who is handsome, most people consider him as having good personalities or abilities. On the other hand, if he is not, a great number of people are unlikely to think he has good characteristic. However,through the diverse experience, I not only often realize first impressions can not reveal everything such as one's personalities, but also initial impressions are changed over time, so we need much time to see.
To begin with, first impressions do not have enough to present one's personalities or characteristic although sometimes some people's personalities are fitted with their initial impressions. In this reason, a substancial number of people misunderstand and I also experienced. After graduating from high school, I met the woman when I attended the university. She was ugly and wore sloppy and filthy clothes. Therefore, I disgusted making a relationship with her. However, I found out she is very kind and generous by spending much time on studying or going shopping. At that time, I felt that I am very foolish because I judged my friend just by seeing her appearance without any hesitations.
In addition, initial impressions are not unchanged but metamorphose. In other words, it is merely temporary. Because of this reason, we should observe people for a long time in order to evaluate precisely. For example, my best friend, Sera, failed to her marrige life because she believed that her husband is very kind person due to his first impressions. On the contray her expectation, he is very selfish, biogted and sturbborn. As a result, she regreted her choice and finally decided to divorce from her husband. If she had not judged by using first impression and had spent much time to watch him , she would not have troblued in her marrige life.
To sum up, This is not only because judging features of people through first impressions can not show everything about lives, abilities or personlities of people, but also because most people need much more time to observe one's behavior. On the whole, I strongly agree the popular saying, "Do not judge a book by its cover." I wholeheartely belives those who not evaluate by one's appearance can make better relationship with a lot of people as well as have real friends in their lives.
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