친구들에게 조언을 얻는것이 부모님께 조언을 얻는것 보다 좋다. agree/disagree |
In daily life, it is necessary foe every one to discuss problems to make solve or gain some comfort. Some people might say that talking to friends is the best way to get useful advices because they are same age and go through similar period. However, I tightly insist that opening mind to parents about happenings is more beneficial than to friends. Actually, parents know their offspring more than their friends, and they have more experiences about life. To begin with, parents understand their children well because they have lived together for very long time. Since parents have seen their children's behaviors when they were born, they can notice meaning of their kids' action and facial language. To give you an idea, here is my story. When I was thirteen years old, I parted from my girl friend who was my first lover. Therefore, my feeling was so depressed and I do not want to talk about that event to any one. At the evening of the day, my mother came to me and said that what concerns so i have. At that time, I was so surprised with my mother's immediate perception, and tell frankly about my situation. Then, my mother gave a helpful advice to ease my emotion and overcome the hard time. In this point of view, it is better to receive advices from parents because they already know that what their offspring think. In addition, many experiences parents have are so far valuable when they give an advice. Naturally, they have lived they lives longer than their children. During their lives, they have obtained more knowledge and wisdom which are essential to learn one's life. To illustrate my example, in high school days, I used to climb up mountains with my father on holidays. One day, on the way of climbing mountain Han-la in Korea, we lost our ways due to the darkness of night. I was so afraid of being in danger of hunger and cold, but my father, eventually, find the right direction to get out the spot by using tree rings. If it were not his attribution, I would be trembling in the middle of the mountain whole night. This shows that parents have many useful thoughts and skills that guide us in better way from problems. To summary, in order to receive better advices, we need to discuss with parents because they well-know about their own offspring and have precious ideas.... |