친구들에게 조언을 얻는것이 부모님께 조언을 얻는것 보다 좋다. agree/disagree |
In modern society, It has been controversial whether or not getting advice from friends is more useful for people than gaining counsel from their parents. However, I basically disagree with the position that friends may more efficiently advise people than their parents. This is because parents know best their offsprings as well as having more broaden knowledge. I will illustrate these reason more in detail from now on.
Most of all, it is imperative for parents to have most much information of their children. Generally, parents have been with their offsprings for long time since the children was born. Thus, this long - time experience lead parents to possible to more understand their offsprings. Accordingly, parents may be familier with their children`s thinking pattern, behaviors and their personal anxieties. For example, In F-Z generation magazine survey, I read that 84.5% of Korea children responding to questionnaire mention they have most much time with their parents. From this information, I can conclude that parents may most recognize their children`s everything.
In addition, most parents usually have bordan knowledge compared to children`s friends. As a matter of fact, parents have expecienced countless hard situations as having lived for a long time. Therefore, they have lots of know - how about dealing with difficult circumstances. As a result, most parents may give optimal solutions to their childrens more than what young friends whose limited experiences can advise to youths. For instance, when I was young, I have fight my friend whose name is Jack, and I did not know how to rebuild good relationship with Jack. At that time, I required a counselling from my father who undergone same situations in high school years, afterward, I could do well with Jack thanks to my father`s advice that recommend me to send a letter of apology to Jack. From this experience, I found that parents possess information to be useful for solving many problems.
In a fact, just as english poverb goes "a coin has two sides", there might be some problems of obtaing advice from parents. However, I believe that we may have better solutions to solve many problems by getting counsel of parents. This is becauce depth knowledge and understanding about their childrens possessed by parents may contribute to efficiently settle many issues offsprings could face.
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