친구들에게 조언을 얻는것이 부모님께 조언을 얻는것 보다 좋다. disagree |
Living is not an easy job; we often need others help. The help can be financial, but everyone would agree that most common form of help is done by words. If you need a advice, it should be given by the people who know you well. Friends’ advices can sometimes be worthy, but, in my opinion, parents’ advices are much more valuable. This is mainly because parents are adults who have good wisdoms from real situations. Since they have many experiences from years of life, a difficulty a person is facing might be what they have overcome before. If you are in trouble and do not know what to do after a failure on an important exam for college entrance, for instance, your parents would encourage you to try again. They might tell you their own experience and explain how they have regained confidence. On the contrary, your still young friends may not be able to even understand your situation. Moreover, parents are the only people who know a person from the birth to the present. Advices should be carefully given according to not only the present circumstance, but also the background of the person. Since parents know all about one, they can give the most accurate advice in time. In addition, the person does not have to describe his/her feeling fully to the parents. The person would feel much more comfortable when asking helps for his/her parents. However, one could have hard time to tell all the things related to the very personal facts to one's friends. In short, advices from parents are much better than those from friends. The advantages brought by parents’ wisdom and knowledge far outweigh that of friends. I strongly recommend you to keep in mind that if you want sincere and wise tip for a problem, you had better discuss it with your closest people, your parents. |