A person's childhood years(the time from birth to twelve years of age) are the most important years of a person's life |
Many people believe that person's childhood years are the most important since during that time one's charater and habit are decided. Alothough I agree this views to some degree, in my opinion, adults periods(the time from twenty to thirty years) is more sigificant. This is largely because people choose their lifelong job. In addition they meet their lifelong marriage partner.
First of all, after graduation from high school or college, people choose their job that hardly changes again. When they enter company, they spend bulk of their time in workplace. If they are not satisfied their job which does not fit their interests, it has negative effect on their overall life. For instance, my brother who major in philosiphy entered insurance comany as sales person. Altought he always wanted to be high school teacher, owing to high sallary he choose that company. During several monthes he enjoyed spending a lot of money on what he want to buy. However, eventually, he regret his choice since he could not adopt company's atmosphere and were not satified with his workolad.
On top of that, in this period, most people meet their invaluable mates. In these days, many people tend to choose their lifelong partner without deep considering. Marriage is so sigificant to all of the people since it does not reverse and people do not adimit divorce especially in Korea, my home country. According to newly released report on korean woman's fact from Woman Department, many woman who suffer from their mate's violence and igrorance can not divorce easily. This is largely due to the fact that they dread social prejudice including from thier parents and brothers and worry about their children. This report clearly shows that marriage is important.
As I mentioned above, I firmly believe that entering adults period is the most important years in one's life. The reason is that people choose their job and their marriage partner. If one spend that time carelissely, their whole life has a negaive influnce. |