▶ Your Answer : General observation makes it clear that people have many things that they enjoy and they do not. It brings a debate on whether or not people occasionally have to do what they do not want to do. According to my understanding, the notion that sometimes, people should do what they do not enjoys is rational and agreeable for the following reasons: it is effective to be successful, and to build social network.
To begin with, people can be successful in the future. It is clear that there are many things which have positive effects on people, but they do not enjoy them. In order to be successful in the future, they sometimes have to endure the unpleasant situation. One of my friends, KY, is now a famous doctor in Seoul. He had a goal to be a doctor when he was a high school student. However, it is very difficult to be a doctor in Korea, because doctor is one of the most secure jobs, and they can also earn a lot of money. So, in order to enter a medical school, he had to get a great score in all the subjects during high school period. Actually, he was not interested in both subjects of social science, and mathematics. Nevertheless, he had studied these subjects very hard to be a doctor. During three years in high school, he gained all A plus credits even if he did not like them. Finally, he entered one of the prestigious medical schools in Korea, and he is now a famous doctor.
On top of that, it benefits to build social network. Each person has different priorities and preferences. In order to have close relationship with other people, people sometimes should do what other people want to do, even if they do not enjoy them. My cousin, Suzy, is now working at a large company in Seoul. She is so ambitious. Right after entering the company, she had a dream to be a leading person in the company. She realized that having a strong relationship with coworkers and supervisors is the most important thing for her dream. So, whenever her supervisors or coworkers ask her to do something he did not wanted to do, she was willing to do these things. It was not her pleasure, but she endured the situation for having close relation with others. Finally, she could build social strong with her coworkers, and it gave her a lot of advantages in her workplace. She could have many opportunities to work with competitive workers in promising projects. So, she have achieved many things. Due to her efforts, she is now a leading person in the company.
To sum up, people sometimes should endure not pleasant situation, because be successful in the future, and build wide social network. |