▶ Your Answer : Some people believe that people who are in a trouble should solve their problems through using their own knowledge and experience. However in my opinion, people need to ask others get advice. There are two reasons; Firtst, through other`s advice, one learn new solutions. Second, by talking to others, one can relieve stress. Frist of all, people can get novel ideas to solve problems through other`s communication. Imagine people only have textbook knowledge and think by oneself alone. Their views will be so narrow. By talking about their own problems with other people, one can gain diverse solution that they cannot think. For example, when I was in highschool, I had a problem concerning about my math score. I did not get score more than 70. The math score was not allowded to enter the university that I wanted to go. I only studied the subject through my study method again and again. But, my score never did not rise. So, I talked to my students who got the score 100. He told me his study skills and I practied his skills. Through his advice, eventually, I got a full score and I could go to the university that I wanted to go. Second, people who are stressful because of own problems can relieve their stress through communication with other people. People have pressure not only physically but also mentally due to their problems. So, having the outlet for stress has a meaning in itself. one can get back on track By talking about their problems with other people. For example, there was a poll conducted by the Board of welfare, with 200people as respondents. The purpos of the poll was to know about correlation between stress and communication with other people. The majority of people replied that the communication with other people has effect on relieving stress. An overwhelming 78% respondents represents that they feel relaxed and comfortable when they talk to other people about their problems. The reason is that brain`s cell that control stress active when people talk to other people. To sum up, due to the fact that gainning new solution and relieving stress through communication with other people, I frimly hold that one who has problems should ask other people for advice. |