▶ Your Answer : Some people might say that long distant would be helpful for people to recognize the importance of their relationship. However, in my opinion, people must spend more time together in order to develop their relationship for the following reasons: first of all, living away cannot lessen differences between people and secondly, having time together would promote their intimacy. To begin with, if people were away, they could not make their discrepancies lesser like different hobbies or preference. In order to do this, people should do diverse activities together and know about their difference in the activities. By doing so, they would be able to avoid certain activities or attitudes which the friend do not like, and as a result, they can appeal more positively to each other. In this sense, I will take an example of mine. Last time, my friend and me lived in different regions for a long time. As a result, when we met again, we did not know about each other’s interest or preferences. To be specific, I did not know that my friend became to dislike horror movies, but I recommended her to go to watch the movies consistently. As a consequence, she was so annoyed because she thought that my such recommendation was rude and did not meet me for a while. On top of that, having more time together would be helpful for human relationship since people can make a lot of special memories and build intimacy. These things would be formed only by activities which they did together because the experiences give them common memories, and people tend to consider that sharing good memories is something special. I know this from my personal experience. When I was a undergraduate student, I participated in a drama club. Me and club members created several plays together, and made a lot of memories in the process. For example, we all remembered some mistakes which we made in stages, and these memories were present only for us. These memories enabled us to consider our relationship was special, and as a result, we have been able to maintain relationships until now. To sum up, long distant cannot minimize people’s differences in terms of hobbies or interest. However, having a lot of time with each other promotes their intimacy and gives them special memories. In this regard, I firmly believe that people should spend time to together as much as possible in order to make closer relationships. |