▶ Your Answer :
the relationship between parents and there's
children is unique. in other relationship, like friendship, having some kind of
'give and take' especally in money. but for parents, they not expecting they
will take back what they have given. i think it is kind of
'one-way-relationship'. it is helpful and also need for kids, when they can't
keep their life by themselves. but, for young adults who can make money by
using their skill or doing just simple thing for a part-time jop, it means they
have availity to be independ, maybe it's not that helpful for their future. in
my experience, some of my friends who get unlimited support from parents, can't
decide when they have to independence. more extremly, i also see a guy getting
parents support untill 30.
so i think, the early independence is good
for young adults independency. with the burden that they have to keep their
life, they will grow. and it will helpful also to get a nice jop. because they
have to making their own skill to make money, and it will be a basement for
theirs career.
and it will be helpful to parents also.
after theirs children go out of theirs home, they can make their's individual
plan not for mother and father, for 'she' and 'he'. with that plan they can
enjoy theirs life which come after finishing the one-way relation to children.
between independence young adults and
parents enjoying their life, they will make new and nicer relation ship with
repecting each others, and love each others. and the young adults can make more
shining future.
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