It is better to have friends who are similar to you than those who are diffrent from you. |
a famous poet of Korea said that a true friend is a invaluable treasure which can not be replaced by anything. As clearly expressed in his saying, we know how importance friends are in our life. Needless to say, it is also important that what kinds of friends we should have. because, for almost all people, their friends occupy very large part of their lives and greatly affect to them. Some one even say that friends around you makes your life, supporting the above statement. Given the choice between having friends who are similar to me and having friends who are different from me, I prefer choosing the different one. The reason is that I can experience various thought and idea which is different from me, and develop the social skills. Before all things, people can experience and learn diverse ideas and views by being exposed to their friends who are different from them. If a person is always surrounded by his friends who are very similar to himself, they could make the person narrow-minded and stubborn. Conversly, people can learn that there are many way of view and opinion about certain issues or social phenomenons and how to appreciate and accept those ideas by having friends who are different from them. This not only broaden one's range of thouht but also enhance the understanding about other people. In addition, people can develop interpersonal skills such as good communication ability. Because their friends have different perspective about same topics, the process which exchange their thoughts are naturally occur. These experiences enhance the ability of expressing their opinion easily and logicaly, and listening to the ideas of their friends attentively, which is the essential skill in modern society. From my experience, When I was a sophormore in college, I went to other university in Seoul by an exchange program. In there, I could meet a lot of new friends majoring in literature and they were quite diffrent in many aspect from my friends who mostly study science. They were often in the completely diffrent positions from mine about the topics of classes we took together. So I had to debate with them on these topics, explain my views, listening their argues. That experience helped me a lot when I socialized with my coworkers in current workplace. To summarize, It is advantageous for people to having friend who are different from them. It not only make people learn various views of other people, but also develop adroit social skills. For these reasons, I wholeheartedly believe that It is very desirable that having friends who are diffrent from us.
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