▶ Your Answer : Opinions may be divided whether people who have diverse interests and individuality cannot be friends. However, we cannot deny the fact that we already have friends who have different personality and concerns. Personally, therefore, I agree that people can get along with others who have various individuality and interests. I feel this way for the reasons, which I will explore in the following essay. For starters, most of the people do not usually choose specific people who are analogous to oneself when people make a friend; it is just like a coincidence. Inevitably, people would meet a wide variety of others who have completely individuality. No one intends to make a certain friend with similar personality and concerns. My own experience demonstrates the meaning of the first reason. When I was in an elementary school, I did not get along with other peers firstly. I was so timid and passive at that time. However, a friend, Sabin, came to me and showed me her interests without any reason. At that moment, I felt so uncomfortable regarding her concern. Also I did not intend to be a friend with her. Nevertheless, by giving constant favors to me, only then opened I my mind to her. Finally, she and I could be best friends naturally.
On top of that, most of people do not consider personality and concerns as important in making friends. Simply being friends has nothing to do with friends' individuality and interests. Rather, most people can be readily friends when they received any favor or help from others without reference to personality and interests. This is because people who now go through hardship will really appreciate about the help, if they require urgently other's help. For example, when I was in a middle school, I had a friend who used to show off and had very active personality. Frankly, at first glance I was not interested in him because of his personality. However, one week when I struck on a study problem about math, I asked him to tutor since he got first place in our class. He ardently taught me solutions even though we did not know each other well at the time. Thus, I was so touched about him and realized that he was so warm-hearted. Regardless of his personality and concerns, we got to be friends due to his sincere help.
Taking not selecting certain people and considering individuality and concerns in to the consideration, I firmly hold that people who have different interests and personality can be friends for the reasons that I mentioned above.
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