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There are diverse opinions on the proportion
of imposing an effect generated by family members and surrounding environment to
development of children. In my opinion, both family member and surrounding environment
are important to children’s development. Thus, the two-track approach can be a sensible way of developing children's possibility.
In terms of family member, it is impossible for us
to dismiss the family influence on the child's development. The way the parents
talk, act, and think can be the great models for the child. Because of children's
nature, in the developmental period of young children, they are naturally following
their parents as their roll-model. Thus, the inspiring discussion between
family members, a polite and gentle way of behavior, right and sensible way of
life can hugely be beneficial to the development of child.
When it comes to the surrounding
environment, it is also very important. There is a famous story in eastern culture
that, the great philosopher’s mother moved three times to provide her son a
better environment to become a great man. Like this, children are
developing their ability and character through the communication with the
people, culture, and society where he/she lives. The joyful neighborhood, a big
and well managed library, the clean and lively nature, and a decent home are easy to
be recognized as proper surroundings for the development of children. And with
a high possibility, that recognition will be true for many cases.
In conclusion, there is no profit of
discern which one comes first, family member, or surrounding environment. Both
the family member and a surrounding environment are crucially important due to
the reason that they cannot be separated in real. The good family members will provide
the nice environment for the development of their children. Thus, if we are
willing to encouraging our children to be developed well, we should be a nice
family member while providing a great environment as a ‘nice family member’.
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