Your Answer ▼ Recently, whether it is important for parents to raise children independently or not has been an issue of controversy. While some people say that letting children deicide make their own choices on everyday matters leads them to become a selfish person (괄호는 가급적이면 사용하지 말아주세요~) (like food, clothes and entertainment) make them selflish in a society, others claim that it is significant for kids to have their that childern have own decisions. This eassay (파란 부분은 철자가 틀린 단어이므로, 꼭 사전에서 정확한 스펠링을 찾아보시고 익혀주세요~) will compare both views with some supportive examples.
To begin with, some people saying that children may should not solely choose things that what they like. This is because they are not good at deciding matters which can benefit them. To be specific, most children like fast food including Hamburger (소문자 시작입니다.), pizza but dislike vegetables., If parents allow them to eat preferable food, they may escape from healthy food so their health condition get worse. Moreover, they may only enjoy making friends and playing on the playground, which cause loss of interests in studying. Parents are able to see child's low test score. Hence, they insist that making a decision themselves does not help in the less occur growth of child's physical and metal condition.
On the other hand, howerver, others claim that making own decisions can help youngsters identify themselves because children' choice is can be respected in the process. To be precise, one child prefer to dance and parent let him enjoy dancing. This contrubute to pursing their dream and he (초록색 단수 복수 둘 중 하나로 통일해주세요~hecan become dancer in the future. In addition, since parents force them to do what parents want (강제하지 '않기' 때문이 아닌가요?), realtionship between parent and child will be very smooth, Due to emotional saftey, children can become a maintain sociable person. Therefore, these people argue that allowing children to make their own decision their own decision can help find self-indentfication quickly fastly and early.
To conclude, from what has been compared above, it seems true that children's own decisions have both merits and dismerits at the same time. However I believe that children's decision should be respected but when expected harmful reults are expected, parents should teach them right behavior.
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