Today, almost every single women and men equally learn and then go out to work. When a man and a woman married, they may have to go out to work even their children are young. Some parents, especially mothers drop their carrier and caring their children full time. I agree that both parents going out to work profit to their family's fianance matters, but I don't agree that statement, when they have children. One of parents shall remain home and care children, if it is feasible.
Children need house, clothes, and food for their daily survival. Money can afford those, but when a basic necessities were fulfilled, they want to have personal relationship with their parents. This desire of relationship is strong, when a child is young and the money cannon satisfy the children. this kind of desire can be achieved through parents caring and nurturing.
Parents should spend a lot of time to understand and know their children phyically and psychologically. Conversation with parents influences children's mind and thought. It creats role moden in their whole life. Also money cannot make converstion with children. Whether they will be a good members of society or not is totally depend upon children's personal relationship with their parents.
In conclusion, we can buy many things through money, but relationship with children and children't living pattern are totally depend on people, mother and father, not money. Benefit from money is a little compare to benefit from nurishing children in person. Because children are gullible and easily affected by enviornment. So children need parents not money. |