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Some people believe that talking to telling children that their efforts make can them achieve anything if they do hard enough could be a benefit for children in some way. I somehow agree with the benefit while I will also deal with the advantages and disadvantages of it on the below.
It is true that encouraging words for children have some positive effects on them. Children who have been told in a positive way such that they can do anything if they work hard could be attracted to try anything harder than others obviously, even without any achievements, due to a positive way of thinking. In other words, even if they fail to get the outcomes they want, they could try one more time again because they can trust themselves and the power of efforts at the end of the time. Their beliefs and countless actions would lead more opportunities to try which also make diversity diverse experiences, ups and downs. These successes and failures memories of success and failure could give them broaden views about the world and stronger persistences for better life.
In contrast, some people think that the positive message may not would not always be good to children. One reason can be that these this words encourage children to give too much effort too much to try. For example, there is something enjoyable for children sometimes such as a football foot ball game or relaxing time with friends. If they care too much about their efforts and achievements from the efforts, they can rely on completing the better results, loosing opportunities to enjoy their spending time. Furthermore, if they get unexpected records during while expecting some proper rewards or their trying time, they can be easily shocked and hard to overcome those that unhappy situations. As a result, they can be stressed a lot about their every trials which also has an impact on their healthy.
In conclusion, it would be worth enough to give children valuable words encouraging them to try hard for the achievements, but as well as it could be considered as to pressure children to work hard with stressful experiences as well. |