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Some people might say that they prefer to invite few friends and
family because it is comfortable and a chance to have a good time with people
who are close. However, I disagree with this opinion for two reasons. First, it
is better for people to meet a lot of people and we can help each other when we
are in trouble. Second, it makes you have a narrow view about world unless you
hang out with your best friends.
First of all, people nowadays have less opportunity to meet a lot of
people they did not know since they are so busy. If you invite many people in a
party, you can have more chances to meet diverse people, and learn about them.
Also, they can be your friends and help each other to reach your goals, and
this is prerequisite factor for success in contemporary society. To be
specific, the importance of human relationship has completely changed compared
to the past. In the past, the meaning of success is one's ability to exceed
others, but now it is different. Along with one's ability, it is crucial to
have people who can lend you a hand when you are in trouble. In this sense,
meeting and getting close to others is very important. I can explain this with
my friends’ case. For example, two of my friends have different personalities.
One of them is very active and not only liked to get along with friends but
also met various people and good at getting close with people. The other is,
however, somewhat timid and liked to have time with only his best friends, and
he does not think it is wrong. However, as time went by, these two guys live
different life. The friend of former and his friends help each other when they
are in trouble, and it is very efficient for every part of life. However, the
latter one cannot solve his problem well because he only has friend who have
limited knowledge compare to the former friend. In this case, I strongly
believe that it is better for people to have a lot of friends to help each
other.
On top of that, having time with only your best friends and family
can make your perspective short-sighted. We cannot live with people only we
love. The world we live in now is the society of versatile and we will experience
lots of changes, so we should learn how to interact with various people. Therefore,
if you persist to interact with your close people instead of learning about people
have various perspectives you can be fall behind in the society. It is true that get along with close friends
and family is more convenient. However, I strongly believe advantages of
various experience about people outweigh disadvantages concerning the fact that
it is essential for this versatile world. For example, when I was in freshman
year, I had a crisis on my hand. There were some limits to solving the problem
since I did not have enough knowledge in other fields except my own.
Unfortunately, the people around me and my family did not know how to solve the
problem. I was despaired and struggled to solve the problem. At that time, I
suddenly realized that the people I had met at recent party at my university
because people at that party were various experts and all have different
experiments. I desperately asked them to lend me a hand. They sincerely listened
to me and gave me simple and effective information. I could implement their
instruction right away and solved the problem within an hour. Thanks to the
people I met in the party, and their expertise they know, I was able to
overcome my crisis. At that time I realized that having a lot of people who
have various people is the best way to live in this world smart and happy, as
well as for success.
To sum up, inviting many people in party can improve social skills
and make a lot of people to live with. Moreover, it can help people to live success
and happy life. In this regard, I firmly believe that it is better for people
to invite many people in party.
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