▶ Your Answer : Some people think that if they cannot say something nice to someone, it is better not to say anything at all. However, I agree with the opinion. There are two reasons. One reason is that there is less chance of hurting someone's feeling. The other reason is that if I cannot say something nice, I will be ignored by people. To begin with, there is less option of hurting someone's emotions. Suppose that when you say something, you refer to other people's poor appearance. Would it be possible to recover this moment? The answer will be no. The only key to avoid this situation would be to say carefully. When I was in high school, I used to talk to my friends about soccer players. One day, unfortunately, I criticized the famous soccer player 'Messi' whom my best friend Tom admire and thus my friend Tom disappointed to me. However, I decided to talk about Messi's exceptional shooting ability. I could escape from this adverse moment. It became a turning point in my life. Because I always say about something carefully afterward. In addition, if I cannot talk about something well, I am going to be ignored by people. It is required for people to have great ability that mention something nice to others in this society. If you have no this ability and try to say something, there will be less place to stand in the world. Therefore, in order to stand out, we must have this capacity or conceal your weakness. A study conducted by a group of sociologists is a good example of this. The researchers tracked the habits of people who has jobs they want over a 3 year period in order to find out their difference. What they found was intriguing. The people who get jobs they want usually had a great abilities to say something well comparing to the others or be proficient to hide their poor ability about this. The reasons was that it is important to conceal our weakness or have this ability. To sum up, the situation to hurt someone's feeling is less. Moreover, I avoid the moment that ignored by others. For these reasons, I firmly believe that my opinion is good for the reasons I mentioned above. |