Life is full of choices, varying from trivial issues such as what to eat to making economical or political decisions involving millions of dollars. The choice might drastically affect one's life, necessitating people to carefully make important decisions. In this sense, I believe people should determine their own crucial matters since they know themselves the best and they will learn to manage their own life.
People themselves are the best one who could understand their emotions thoughts and dreams. Even though many people, including experts such as consultant, could give a lot of advice, they could not thoroughly comprehend other people's mind. In fact, this is the reason why people should decide important issues by themselves. Because people themselves could profoundly know what they wish, what they want to do and what they feel, they should select their important matters. To be more specific, suppose one man is concerning whether he should ask one woman to go out. This might be an important choice since the women could be his wife. He might listen to advice from his friends or family, but at the end, he should choose what to do. No matter how much advice he got, whether he wants to love the woman is the thing that only he knows. If he could love her, he will go out, if he does not, he will not. No one could bother or help in the process. Therefore, people could make much better decisions by alone.
Moreover, people will learn how to manage their life. People should strive to be an independent presence, not a dependent presence. When they rely on other sources or advice in order to decide their important matters, they will loose self-confidence and patience. For example, adults who act like a teenager are resulted from their dependence on their parents from early age. Rather than leading them to choose what to do, parents shown the entire path they have to select. However, when they went out to society where there were no one to guide them, they did not know what to do. Every time they encountered difficulties, they just gave up or finding other sources to rely. However, the conclusion of their life is they just becoming a boy who has adult-looking and stick in their house. I believe this shows the importance of self decision-making.
In conclusion, I firmly think people should make important decisions by alone since they are the best one who comprehend themselves and will learn to control their own life. People should realize that society is not like school where they have rules to follow, it is chaos. |