people who are surrounding me used to offer some advice whenever I try to make some decisions. some could feel it as an interruption, but I think it is the best way to learn about my life because of follwing reasons; their advices for me make myself not to make a mistake, and it also navigates my life to be better way.
First of all, their advices could help me not to make a mistake upon my life. the advice may be derived from their experiences that their decisions which I would follow already had caused some bad consequences. They would not want to let you feel regret from what you did. For example, when I was in high school, My parents used to say that I have to prepare a mid-term exam early. But I had postponed the preparing until the day before the exam, then I massed it up in the end and thought that following their advice was better not to feel regretful from undoing.
second, their advice would navigate my life to go toward better way. after regreting from making wrong decisions by myself, I would remind the advice, and then find an answer in terms of why they gave me such an advice. In the above example, throughout the regreting, I could realize that my parents would predict the consequence even prior to take the exam. their advice inspired me to decide that I would never become a procrastinator ever.
To summarize, the advice of my friend and family is beneficial to learn my life because it contains their wish to let me become better person in the future with their attentivenss and careness regarding me.
therefore, we have to accept it and adapt it into our life.
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