Sometimes, people point out other people’s mistakes when they truly consider their situation. Some people argue that people who do not listen to the criticism others give can have successful lives because they have their clear thoughts and do not care about what others say negatively. On the other hand, others maintain that people should get feedbacks from their colleagues. I strongly agree with the latter since they are able to recognize their mistakes and improve social relationships with other people.
To begin with, people who are willing to gain feedbacks are more likely to succeed because they realize their drawbacks. By listening to what other people criticize, they can cultivate their aptitudes. On the contrary, selfish and arrogant people cannot improve their abilities since they are unaware of mistakes they make. One research conducted by Seoul National University demonstrates that the majority of successful figures have taken all criticisms from others throughout their lives. By this way, they could change their attitudes reduce mistakes. Therefore, the more criticism people accept the more successful lives they have because they can minimize their flaws.
In addition, admitting criticisms will enhance people’s social skills. In other words, they are more open-minded that those who do not allow blames from others. They are eager to cooperate with their co-workers. On the other hand, people who just work individually would be considered as anti-social people who do not want to work together. One of my friends, for instance, does not like hearing criticism from her classmates because she thinks she is more perfect than any others. As a result, she is having a difficult time to get along with friends. Her friends believe that she only thinks about herself. Thus, people should listen to what other people point out to have better social skills, bringing successful life.
To take all these things into account, criticism is advantageous to people’ lives. They can develop themselves by eliminating their shortcomings. Besides, they can have better social life. Therefore, people should try to take all criticism and consider it as useful advice for their future lives. |