Since people get some curiousities from their lives, they try to learn and study them in order to improve themselves. Some may prefer to listen to the advice from others, on the other hand, some may just want to experience them. In my case, I prefer to challenge myself because it is an easy way to learn about life, and it would give me lots of confidence for my life.
Above all, the way that you challenge yourself is easier to learn about your life than just listening to others' advices. The advice of family and friends is sometimes so abstract, so you would be confused unless they care about you very seriously. Therefore, even though you get the idea from them, you do not even know exactly how to do for your life. However, if you experience yourself, you would realize easily how new experiences work, and where they are exactly needed for your life.
Secondly, through new challenges, you would be stronger, and it would give you a lot of confidence for your life. When you face new experiences, you may feel strange at first, and you do not even know how to solve them. Sometimes, it would bring about lots of risks. However, while you struggle through unexpected problems, you would learn how to avoid the problems for the next time, so you would not make the same mistakes in the future. Thus, you would excel yourself step by step over time.
As seen above, I believe that it is a better way to learn about your life if you experience yourself than just listening to others advices. It is an easy way to learn, but it also gives you lots of confidence for your life. |