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Some people think that it is important to
regularly have meals with families. However, in my opinion, it is better to have
flexibility for their meals. This is because that people are able to have meals
with families anytime and regularly having meals with families could be
stressful for people.
First of all, people can have meals with
families anytime and anywhere. Frankly, this issue is actually like a double-edged
sword. It is also true that routinely having meals with families can allow the
families being more familiar. However, I believe the advantages of flexibility
of having meals with families far outweigh those of routinely of having meals
with them concerning the fact that people can spend time with families in
anywhere. For example, there was a survey conducted by Seoul National
University with students as respondents. The purpose of the survey was to
understand the consensus view of regularly having meals with families in
today's society. The majority of the respondents ranked the flexibility of
having meals with families over the regularly of those. An overwhelming 76%
responded that people want to have free to choose for dinner time. The reason was
that people believed that they do not want to be forced to have meals with
families. This survey proves that people have a negative view of regularly
having meals with families.
On top of that, having meals with family everyday
could be stressful for people. Suppose that you cannot have dinner with your
girlfriend or boyfriend. Would it be possible to maintain your relationship? The
answer will be no. The only key to maintain the relationships would be to spend
time with your lover anytime. For example, when I was in university, I had been
having meals everyday with my family. At that time, I had a girlfriend.
However, the girl who I met always got mad about my dinner time. As a result, I
broke up with the girl. If I were able to have dinner with her, she might stay
with me. I got so much stresses for the fact. In addition, I think that other
factors for time of meals are also valuable.
To sum up, it is not important to regularly
have meals with families because of managing time efficiently and reducing stresses.
In this regards, I firmly believe that a time for meals with families is not
important for the reasons I mentioned above.
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