▶ Your Answer : Some
people think that they need to choose friends who are different from themselves.
However, in my perceptive, it is better to have similar one and sticking with
them. This is because these friends have less possibility to have arguments,
and because they can have more fun.
To
begin with, a dispute between friends who are similar to themselves is unlikely
to happen. Since they are aware of their personality well, they will know what
cause an argument among them. For example, I have a best friend, Kevin, who is
similar to me, thus well-knowing each other. Despite the fact that we usually have
small arguments about trivial things, we never cross the boundary that seriously
making us get indignant. Therefore, we never are displeased at each other. If I
had met friends who are different from me, I would have a couple of experiences
of violence.
On
top of that, a better awareness of each other among friends, similar friends to
themselves can have more entertainment. To be specific, since they are alike, their
habit or private life will same as too. Therefore, they can do whatever they
want together without any conflicts. It is human nature that people can have
more fun when they join an every activity along with a group or friends rather
than doing alone, thus having more fun. Few years ago, for instance, I have met
a friend who is similar to me. We had a same pastime, working-out, which our
ages of friends usually do not like to enjoy in their leisure time. Before I meet
him, I used to go the gym alone. Were it not been for a similar friend, I would
still go there by myself.
Granted,
choosing friends who are different from themselves is definitely important too.
Nevertheless, analogous friends are more influential and a pivotal position where
they can make special bond, due to the fewer chance of quarrels and more fun. |