▶ Your Answer :
Somepeople are unlike to tell their close friend's mistakes to them. In contrast, Others prefer to tell friends their mistakes directly in order to correct their mistakes. In my opinion, I strongly think the latter opinion is better because by telling friends about their mistakes, they are able to know their mistakes and remedy them. There are good aspects in the latter's opinion.
First, telling friend's mistakes is necessary for them. Generally, when friend take mistakes, people not say to friends about their faults. Although it is good for friendship, the person who take mistakes cannot correct their faults. For example, In a soccergame, Although due to friend's inappropriate direct, team of friends lose in the game, the friend don't know himselvels' mistake. If I not tell the improper direction of friend, the friend cannot develop his direction. On the contrary, If I tell frankly the mistake to the friend, at first the friend might be angry but after a while he will say you that thank you because he can know his faults and he can correct that.
Secondly, informing friend about his mistakes is not always damage the friendship.
By Informing indirectly friend about his faults, the friendship can not get damage.
To explain, if a friend is lazy and his smell is not good, I can explain the situation indirectly like that tell the lazy friend about the advantages of clean person and negative aspects of dirty and lazy person and I dislike dirty person. Then after listen my explain, the lazy friend may change his fault. Plus, if a roommate do not clear room frequently, I can solve the problem by behavioring like that I clear the room frequent and indirectly tell the friend about the cleanroom's advantages. likewise, the friend can understand and correct his mistakes. If is possible to maintain friendship without any angering.
In conclusion, I strongly believe that telling friend about his faults is rather very necessary in order to friendship |