Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? A person should not make important decision alone. Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion. |
There is an argument among people over whether when people make decision, a person should be provided idea from the other people. Some people state that making decision as alone helps people to reduce their regrets in order to responsibility of own decisions, but I believe that people should request other people to help for making decisions for following reasons: various opinions and preventing hasten decisions.
To begin with, if someone ask a solution to solve problems to other people, they can get various ideas from the others, and it would be helpful to solve their problems. Generally, only one person's ideas tend to be narrow because of limited experiences, so it is better to be given solutions from the other people such as parents, teachers, and friends. To support, in my case, I had prepared participating in music competition, so I practiced every day and every night. However, the problem was that the day of music competition and school's exam are the same day. I had thought alone, and finally, I made decision to give up the participating in competition, and I announced this decision to my friends. After they had heard that news, they given advice for me that I should required exception to teacher for my competition. I had adjusted the advice and my teacher comprehended about my situation, so I could participated in the competition, and I got a first grade. If I never heard their advice, I couldn't make good result in the competition.
As to the second, getting solutions from the others would prevent to make hasten decisions. Commonly, unlike many people know that solving problems alone helps to minimize their regrets, making decision as alone would be more harmful. Moreover, it would increase people's regret. To illustrate, according to the research done by department of seoul national university in 2007 of Korea, 85% people answered that they had regrets over their decisions which were made by themselves because they always awaken better way to solve problem after making decision by their own. They further stated that when they had required solutions to other people for making decision, it was more helpful to hinder their regrets because they provided opportunities to think twice during the period of hearing opinions from the others. On the other hand, only 15% people answered that it was more regretful to make decision with others. In this regard, it is obvious that allowing others' idea to me prevents regrets by reducing hasten decisions.
To conclude, making decision with the others might be helpful to yield good result when it comes to variety ideas and reducing regrets. |