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This issue is a little debatable, from person to person, but in the Martha Stewart, I remembered an article titled "white villages", the anonymous author points out that a good neighbor should have some personal traits such as sincereity, honesty, diligence and so on. Among them, I firmly believe that listening carefully to others' opinions and honesty should be the first priority of being a good neighbor. It is important to know that they all are the basement->basic requirements to build up sincere personal relations.
To begin with, one thing is for sure. Being all ears to people ->People should open their ears to others. Meaning, nothing couldn't be more valuable than paying attention to other people's idea in shaping relationships. Good neighbors to eachother are those who can always share their daily feelings and experiences or even, anxieties, Which lays a friendly bridge on the gap between residents. Lending a credential example to this explanation, Sara, now she has been my long-term friend and private tutor as well, who lives my right next-door to my house, was the only person to say hellow when I moved to the village where I now live in. She have ->has always smiled on, paying earnest attention to mepaying earnest attention to me, me whenever I talk to her paying earnest attention to me. I felt accepted and credible.
Moreover, another aspect that we should consider is 'honesty'. We should not turn a blind eye on the point that ->of honesty, a little related to sencerety->sincerity in its deepest level, is the very basic foundation to make us believe someone who is reliable. To be specific, seemingly honesty is a mere personal character but plays a significant role in being a 'reliable' neighbor. It is the case in my own experience. Sara, an exemplary person aformentioned above, has never broken any promises with me. One day, when I promised with her to go church on weekend together, she showed herself to me in front of ->came to my house at exact time which ->as we promised. At that time I felt that she was really a good neighbor. In this respect, To be punctual on time with honesty (정직한것과 제시간 지키는거랑 무슨상관이 있나 생각이 드네요) is another principle to be a good neighbor.
To put it in a nutshell, as substantiated above, the biggest hallmark of good neighbor is listening to listen deliberately to other neighbors' speaking and being honesty to keep ->keeping the promises all the time also plays a significant role to build up good relationships in neighborhood->with neighbors. |