부디 읽으시고 저를 채찍질해주시길 ..( _ _)
friends who are different from themselves. Others choose friends who are similar to themselves |
I think it totally depends on personal favor. If looking around your close friends, you can easily realize your favor whether you prefer different friends or not. Personally, I prefer having a relationship with silmilar friends to myself. Because I can share more things such as problems or feeling with the friend and will not need to worry about a conflict for the different characters between us.
First of all, if I meet similar friends to my self in many points, it will reduce the possibility that we can fight. According to my experience, I had two types of friends when I was 20 years old. The one was older than me and we used to fight related to the trivial things. Especially, when we had to decide food or place for playing, we had a very different opinion against each other. Finally, even though no one intended to break up, we were naturally far away from each other. On the other hands, a new friend and I, had many similar points. So, contrary to the above friend, we could enjoy shopping or studying without a big fight or conflict.
Additionally, I can share the same feeling with the friend and expect to get a proper advice from him or her. Even though I already explained my friend who is very different to me, I realized that different characters can cause bigger problems than what I thought before. If I tell my problem to her, I may not have the answer that I wanted to get. Why? I already experienced many facts that we have different thought and goal and behavior. It is like that African people does not know the word 'cold'.
버스타야 되서 이만 쓰고 일어나야 하네요 ㅜㅜ 아 또 30분만에 끝 못내는 구나.. |