▶ Your Answer :
Humans
changed over time. They became taller, faster, older, and fatter. In the
beginning, they all had similar cultures, convention, and idealism. However,
they evolved to have diverse cultures and practices. As time went by, every
individual started to have different opinions and formed diverse backgrounds.
Now anyone can be unique, and have any idealistic in the contemporary society.
Therefore, the topic spending time with many friends VS Having just a few close
friends can have varieties of points of view. However, based on my cultural backgrounds,
I would choose the second one. First, having a time just a few close friends is
more comfortable psychologically than spending time with many friends. Second, if
people spend time with many friends, it is hard to set schedule each other.
To
begin with, people can feel more comfortable when they pass a time with only a
few close friends than when they spend time with many friends. It is because
there may be some of them who they dislike or uncomfortable. If this happens,
they would not want to play with them even though there are friends whom they
like. For example, when I was a little child I played with many friends. There were
two friends who hate one another and eventually a quarrel arouse between them. Although
some of the rest stopped a fight, it was fruitless. In the end, all of us went
back each home in a bad mood. On the contrary, when I had a time with close
friends I always felt pleasure because the fight does not arise between ours.
It had such a huge influence on me that I believe having a time with just a few
close friends is the best way to play friends.
In
addition, when people play with many people, it is hard to set a date of
appointment. There are the more people to play with together; the more
difficult it is to set a time each other. For example, when I meet friends, I usually
play with a total of seven friends including myself. I do not think seven
friends are a small number to play with. Thus, every time we promise to meet we
have difficulty setting up a date, so that we can only meet once a few months. However,
if I make an appointment to meet only a few friends, we can easily determine a
time which we will meet. As a result, we can meet more often. From our
experience, one can infer that having a time with small number of close friends
is more convenient to adjust schedule properly than spending time with many
friends.
After
the rationale, the essay reached a conclusion. In the end, a point of view
which I have offered should not be underestimated because I explained having a time
just a few close friends is more comfortable psychologically than spending time
with many friends and if people spend time with many friends, it is hard to set
schedule each other. They are all valid points to behold. Therefore, the
postmodernist societies should gravitate toward my opinion.
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