▶ Your Answer :There might be some people who believe that parents should have strict rules for their children to make them succeed in their life. However, I personally disagree with the above idea for the two subsequent reasons. First, children can be stressed out. Also, it is not good for relationship between parents and children. To begin with, it can be stressful to children. Being stressed and tired, children lose their motivation and cannot concentrate well at their work. Having lifestyles which are fit to each children, they can be refreshed and focus better at work. According to recent research done by Korea university, 80% of the respondent said that the more parents have strict rules to their parents, the more stressed out children are. They added that because they could not do what they wanted due to disagreement of their parents when they were young, the efficiency of doing their other work such as academic work decreased. This clearly shows that if parents are too strict to their children, children can be stressed out. Secondly, it is harmful for parents to set strict rules for their children to relationship between them. If parents are too strict to their children, they can be stressed out. Stress makes children very sensitive and agitated, which is not a very good time to be with their parents. Stress makes children act and talk unpleasantly and might cause a conflict. Let me bring up my personal story as an example. When I was in high school, my mother set my study schedule and could not do anything she didn't allow for me. I even didn’t have any break time, and I studied 7 days a week. At first, I followed her rules and it was effective on my academic performance. However, as time went by, I was too much stressed for my hectic schedule and I was upset to my mother, which make me not speak to mother for a long time. If she had not set that strict rules on my studying, I would not have ruined relationship with my mother at that time. In conclusion, I strongly believe that parents should not set strict rules for their children because they want them to succeed. |