▶ Your Answer : Some people think true friends are who stop friends from failure and give sincere advice to their friends. However, in my opinion, usually most of our relation between friend and us are not ideological like that. In other words, we should think one more time before stop friends. To begin with, It is good for friend to let him make mistake in a long-term sight. This is because failing show the truth directly which means it can persuade anyone who asserted their thinking strictly. People are more likely change their habit or thinking after they failed. Also failure helps poeple to develop their own problem-solving skills. For example, I have done breakdance for a hobby. Once, I stucked in a problem that it takes too much times to master a skill. Many people, said how to fix the posture, but I couldn't understand their word. Only after a lot of trial and failure, I could figure out my problems and also understand tutors' words. The problem was that my shoulder was weaker than other average people so I developed a muscle of the portion. After the training, I could master the skills. On the top of that, It is good for my friendship to respect his thought. To be specific, most of people don't like to be pointed out, because it sounds like scold, friends are not exception. Therefore, my words could sound like nitpicking to my friends. For example, My friend and I played a Warcraft3, one of the famous game made by blizzard company. I was good at it but my friend was not. I pointed out his playstyle. According to my friends, it was hard to figure out the purpose of my word; shaming or teaching. Whichever was the purpose. One thing was certain that he felt bad about my word. If I waited until he request to teach better playing, he would not be upset. To sum up, letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing something not to break up a friendship and to develop his own ability to handle problem. For these reasons, I firmly believe that, it is better to let friends to solve their problem alone.
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