▶ Your Answer : agree 1. 비슷한 성향의 사람끼리친해진다. 취미나 성격 등이 비슷하고 잘 맞는 사람에게 호감을 보이는 경향이 있음 반면에 나와 많이 다른 경우에는 거리감을 두고 접근함// 친구를 보면 그 사람을 알 수 있다는 말.. ex.나의 경험담 내가 중학교때 학교 말 안듣는 아이들...
Some people might say that people who are opposite to each other can be friends easily. However, in my opinion,the kinds of friends people have reveal a lot about them. One major reason is that people get intimate with people who seems similar to them rather than who are totally unlike them.
When we talk to someone, if he(she) has same hobby or similar personality, we are inclined to feel more friendly to him. There are more things to share and we can more sympathize to each other's circumstances and how we feel. On the other hand, if we feel someone is too different from us, a lot of people make a barrier in their mind and approach them cautiously. It can take more time to be friends with those people. And I think this is a natural phenomenon.
For instance, when I look back my school days, most people became friends with people who are in the same level in many perspective. In my middle school, many students were going through puberty and there were some distinct troublemakers in the school. They were always together and committed same faults like smoking, drinking alcohol and being absent to school frequently. Teachers really didn't like them and other students didn't like them, either. They were grouped in people's mind as nuisance. Also, when I introduce my friends to my parents, they always tell me that my friends give really similar impressions to me. It doesn't only mean appearances but also auras we emit and personalites. I think this is really interesting and believe that when we want to know someone, then we should see his friends. To sum up, considering that we feel charm to people who are just like us, I firmly believe that the types of friends people have show a lot about them. |