▶ Your Answer : Some
people might think a top priority of relationship is always telling the truth
on every circumstances. However, in my opinion, telling the white lies in some
occasions should be allowed for healthy relationship. For the sake of kind relation, people need to hide some of ugly truth.
When
faced with serious or light situation, someone who always trying to tell the truth will
make things worse. Just seized by the faith that telling the truth is right
could surely hurt someone’s feeling and no benefits for everyone. When I was in
university, friend of mine keep asked me about his outfit. With my taste of
fashion, his outfit looked terrible, so I told him to change his jacket. But, my
friend got angry after my comment and our relationship gone down after. He even
did not change his clothes! There’re only two hurt feelings left and no benefits
at all.
On top
of that, white lies can improve your life quality. Bitter truth is hard to
swallow but sweet lie is easy to follow. Life gets much easier when you trying
to tell people white lies. It is hard to tell truth who feels deep sorrow. You
can’t just say that who’s grandparent in coma to give up only they have little
chance to live. They need friends who can stay together and console with hopeful
lie.
But I’m telling you, only white lie is allowed. Lying for fiscal fraud
or hurt someone must be strictly banned. If you want to tell lie, you need to do
it for human race, not for selfishness.
In the lifetime, we faced to tell the truth or lie. When your lies
won’t hurt anyone or even your relationship will get much better, then lies are
advisable to speak. |